Finding out you’re pregnant while you’re still in high school can make it feel like your world has turned upside down.
You may be wondering how you’ll finish school, what your friends will think, how your parents will react, or whether your future plans have changed forever. It’s understandable to have questions and fears about what comes next.
While an unexpected pregnancy may change some of your plans, it doesn’t have to end your education or your goals. Many young women have continued their education during pregnancy and beyond with the help of supportive people and community resources.
If you’re pregnant and trying to balance school with everything else you’re facing, here are three things to keep in mind.
1. Take One Step at a Time
When you’re first processing an unexpected pregnancy, it’s easy to feel like you have to solve every problem at once.
Instead of focusing on everything that might happen months from now, start with your immediate next steps.
If you think you’re pregnant, begin with medical-grade pregnancy testing. If your result is positive, follow up with an ultrasound. An ultrasound can determine whether the pregnancy is located inside the uterus, whether your pregnancy is viable (meaning you haven’t miscarried), and approximately how far along you are.
Once you have that information, you can begin thinking through your options and making plans for school, your health, and your future.
Remember: breaking things into smaller steps can make an unstable situation feel much more manageable.
2. Know That You Have Rights and Resources
Many students worry they’ll have to leave school because they’re pregnant. Fortunately, that’s generally not the case.
Federal law protects pregnant and parenting students from discrimination in schools that receive federal funding. That means your school should give you the opportunity to continue your education and provide reasonable accommodations when needed.
Depending on your situation, accommodations may include things like excused absences for medical appointments, adjustments for physical limitations, or time to make up missed schoolwork.
You may also have access to resources that can help you succeed, including:
- School counselors
- Academic advisors
- Services at our locations in Richmond and Berea
- Parenting classes
- Community assistance programs
- Material support for you and your baby
Don’t be afraid to ask what resources are available. Many students discover there is more support than they expected.
3. Build a Support System
You don’t have to navigate pregnancy and school on your own.
Think about the people in your life who genuinely want what’s best for you. That might include a parent, grandparent, teacher, school counselor, coach, pastor, another trusted adult, or a close friend.
Having people you can talk to can make a tremendous difference as you make decisions and prepare for the future.
It’s also important to make sure you’re making your own pregnancy decision. While it’s natural to seek advice from others, no one should pressure you toward options you don’t want. Take time to learn about all of your options and choose the path that aligns with your own values, goals, and circumstances.
We’re Here to Help You Move Forward
If you’re pregnant and trying to balance school with everything else you’re facing, Affirm Women’s Health is here to support you.
We offer no-cost, confidential medical-grade pregnancy testing and limited obstetrical ultrasounds for qualifying patients, along with a caring team that’s ready to answer your questions and help you understand your pregnancy options. We can also connect you with community resources and practical support as you continue your education and plan for the future.
You don’t have to figure everything out today, and you don’t have to do it alone. Contact Affirm Women’s Health today to schedule your confidential appointment. We’re here for you.