If you are pregnant, leaning towards abortion, but want to share the decision with your family, it can be a sensitive topic.
Choosing the outcome of your pregnancy is a very personal decision, and you may be wary of feeling pressured towards a certain result. Keep reading for suggestions on confidently navigating this conversation as graciously as possible.
Before Sharing the News
Ensure you have completed essential health screenings to know your decision is fully informed. Once you have confirmed the pregnancy with medical-grade pregnancy testing, an ultrasound can reveal complications that can disqualify you from elective abortion, such as:
- Ectopic pregnancy, which means the fetus is located outside of the uterus
- Miscarriage, because 1 in 4 pregnancies naturally miscarry
In addition to the location and pregnancy viability, an ultrasound will also determine the exact age of the pregnancy. Because the abortion pill is only FDA-approved through 10 weeks gestational age, knowing the age may affect your available options.
How to Talk with Your Family
As you get ready to speak with your family about your pregnancy, remember that the ultimate decision is yours. You are braver than you realize and will know what to say when the moment comes. Here are a few things to keep in mind as you prepare to share the news with your family:
- Choose the right time: Pick a moment when your family is relaxed and able to have a serious conversation.
- Bring support: If you think you’ll need it, bring a friend for support.
- Give them space to process: Just like you want your feelings and decisions respected, give them time to process the news and come up with an appropriate response.
- Encourage dialogue: If you value their input, encourage open communication so that they feel heard (even if you do not agree with their opinion).
Schedule a No-Cost Ultrasound
At Affirm Women’s Center, we provide no-cost ultrasounds in a confidential, non-judgmental space where you can get information about your pregnancy options. We are here for you!
Contact us today to make an appointment.